Dating nice people
The key to remember is that the reason why nice people attract jerks is that they are too adaptive in the beginning.
If that person had had boundaries, the problem never would have happened.
This means even though we ladies claim to want serious relationships with good guys, we end up going for the guy who's no good for us.Your needs and desires are going to come out, and you had better find out early in a relationship where the person really stands with the idea of sometimes having to adapt to them.You don’t want to be telling some counselor the following things ten years from now: Issues like these are usually discovered later in a relationship where one person has adapted for a long time, and then tries to make a change.Back when I was first looking for love, I often heard a lot of dating advice that made me feel uncomfortable. What does it really mean when a man calls himself a “nice guy”?I always heard that “nice guys finish last,” and that in order to be attractive, you needed to act like a jerk because — supposedly — women secretly love men who mistreat them (even if they tell you otherwise). They’re really saying that their “niceness” entitles them to a woman.